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Forum Rules
PLEASE READ BEFORE USING THE FORUMS!
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In Common Sense applies, but read this anyway! : )
Commonly asked questions about the website
For any questions related to using this website.
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In Why aren't some things working properly yet? What's the deal with that?
Your Questions
Having trouble finding the answer how to do something on this site? Ask here and one of our volunteer moderators will get back to you as soon as possible.
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Tom · May 18 '17
In How's this work?
Group Organizers only
For Group Organizers only. Use this forum as a place to share ideas, ask questions, organize meetings of Group Moderators, or to discuss cross-group events. Help support other organizers with your own answers, tips, and suggestions.
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In Creating Events just for my group
Event Hosts Only
If you've hosted an event or are considering doing so, share your tips, questions and comments here. This forum is only open to Event Hosts who've been approved by a Group Organizer.
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Tom · Aug 31 '18
In Have a Question?
General Forums Topics Replies Last Reply
Introduce yourself!
Gotta start somewhere! Say hello to the community and see what activities you can get involved in!
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Kitchen Sink
Just about anything
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Tom · May 24 '17
In HV Singles Open Forum
Profile Questions
Have a question about your profile, or a comment on others? Fire away....
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Tom · Dec 7 '17
In Not getting enough replies or hits
Meet and Greets
A staple of this group will be our "Meet and Greets" - casual, comfortable, low-pressure gatherings at local establishments with little more than coffee and pastries. The focus will be on mingling and saying hello and developing new friendships, not loud music and strobe lights. Not a bad place for your first meeting with either. Join us!
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In Coffee and cake, or Music and Dance?
Cheesy Pickup Lines
What's the cheesiest pickup line you've heard?
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In Worst lines I've heard
Profile tips
We're all hoping for some profile hits and replies. Any thoughts on what makes a good profile and what makes a bad profile?
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Tom · Aug 31 '18
In Tips for effective profiles
Dating Humor
He wore what?
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Tom · Jun 17 '18
In Baseball caps facing sideways
Stalkers
When they won't take no for an answer, what do you do? If they begin harassing or stalking you in any way, what do you do (besides reporting them to us immediately!)
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Tom · Aug 31 '18
In Who do I call? Who do I tell?
Dating Horror Stories
Not all dates end well, nor do simple hello's on the website. Share your experience so others can learn from them (or get a laugh, so long as no one was hurt).
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Body Image
Unless you're Brad Pitt or Scarlett Johanson, you've probably got some discomfort of some sort over some part of your body, at the very least. Face it, we all come in different body types, we have different genetics, and if we're very lucky we get to grow older too. How does your body image affect your desire to date? Do you fear intimacy because you fear undressing in front of your partner? What can your partner do to ease that fear?
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Tom · Aug 31 '18
In I've become "fluffy"
Things To Do in the Hudson Valley Topics Replies Last Reply
What’s going on tonight?
Looking for something to do at the last minute? Ask for some tips here.
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Tom · Nov 26 '17
In Looking for some live music?
Member Favorites
Share your favorite ride, hike, diner venue, winery, Drive-in, etc.... or see what others have to say and go explore for yourself!
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Tom · Aug 31 '18
In Favorite Drive-In Theatre
Dating and Relationships Topics Replies Last Reply
Dating after Divorce
Trust me, it’s not the same as dating after high school. There are all kinds of considerations now. Share your thoughts.
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In How long should I wait?
Dating as a Single Parent
Dating as an adult can bring it's own unique challenges, but dating as an adult with younger children is a whole 'nother ballgame. What's your experience with this?
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In Kids first always, or do my needs matter too?
Dating Etiquette
Who pays? Is holding her chair sexist? What are the rules in the 21st century?
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Tom · Dec 6 '17
In Dunkin Donuts or Dinner?
When's the right time for...... "that"?
First date.... third date.... or not till the ring is on the finger? When's the appropriate time to take the relationship to the next level?
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Tom · Aug 31 '18
In How soon is too soon for intimacy? How long is too long to hold off? What if your expectations are different from your partners?
Padded headboards
That's what they're talking about when they ask about "Safe Sex', right? What's your view on practicing safe sex, and how do you approach it with your new partner?
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Never married? What's held you back?
Finding the right partner to spend your life with isn't easy. Why do you think it's been hard for you to find your partner? What is it you're looking for in a spouse?
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BBW's
Big, Beautiful Women.... a plus for some guys, not so much for others.... and the same goes for the girls - how do you feel about Big, Beautiful Men? A turn on or a turn off? And be kind in your remarks, or you'll be searching for your soulmate somewhere else.
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Dating after the death of a spouse - will it ever feel right?
When's the right time, or will there ever be the right time? What if the relationship hadn't been all that solid to begin with? Are you just looking to take it slowly, or are you ready for more?
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Tom · Dec 7 '17
In Your thoughts on dating again
Long-distance dating
Does it work for you? If not, why not?
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Singles with physical challenges or special needs
A forum for our members with physical challenges or special needs
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STI's
A forum for members with STI's (Sexually Transmitted Infections). Share your special challenges or frustrations in the world of dating.
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Tom · Nov 27 '17
In When and how do I tell my date?
Dating over 40
Over 40 and back in the dating pool? Tell us about it.
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Dating over 50
Over 50 and back in the dating pool? Tell us about it!
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Dating over 60
Over 60 and back in the dating pool? Tell us about it!
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Dating over 70
Over 70 and back in the dating pool? Tell us about it!
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Does size matter?
How big is too big? How small is too small? Over 6'5"? Under 4'5"? (You knew that's what we meant, right?)
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Romance
What's the most romantic date / experience you've had? What should he or she do to help keep it alive?
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Your 1st meeting - where do you go?
Okay, you've screened him or her, maybe spoken on the phone a few times, and now you'd like to meet them. What's your preference - coffee or a cruise, dinner or a diner, private or public, and why?
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Who pays?
Times are a' changing, but many traditionalists still prefer the "old ways". What are your thoughts on who pays? After the first date does that change? What about after your a couple?
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How do you say no? How do you handle no?
Finding the right partner requires saying no a lot. How do you say your not interested? How do you handle hearing that?
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The Singles Life - Solutions and Strategies Topics Replies Last Reply
Eating on a budget
Running a household on a budget of one isn't always the easiest. How do you stretch your budget yet still feed yourself best as you can?
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Affordable Housing in the Hudson Valley
Finding affordable housing isn't always easy. What have you found and how do you minimize your monthly expenses?
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Cooking 101
Are you cooking-challenged and in need of some tips on how to better feed yourself or your children? Ask your questions about cooking, or share your tips for those members here.
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Shyness
Do you feel socially awkward and hesitate to join a group or attend an event? You are SO NOT ALONE! So many of us deal with shyness or social awkwardness, feeling uncomfortable walking into a room full of strangers much less people we might know. How do you feel? How do you deal with it?
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